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So i am into my 3rd day being officially homeless. I went to a shelter and i will tell the conditions there are more than terrible. You have mixture of drug addicts, alcholics, and wackos that make my behavior in this community seem rational.

I am typing this on my phone. I got a pretty good deal on it. $60 no tax or connection fee. A phone is one of the most important things you should have. Even if the phone has no service you can still use an open signal to surf the web & even make or receive phones through services such as google voice.

Shelter's in this part of jersey are essentially just a building with a few beds and plastic chairs. My 1st night there i got 45 minutes sleep and i was sleeping on the floor. Last night i slept on 3 plastic chairs. I got about 3 1/2 hours sleep so i guess that means i am moving up in the world. Last night i had to listen to people yelling at one another about how they better go upstairs because they smell like shit...

I don't feel completely screwed though, prior to becoming homeless i found a job & i start tomorrow. It's a custodial position, when you've hit rock bottom any job is a good job. The shelter lets you stay for 45 days and then its on to the next one if you need to, this place has 3. I've been told the remaining 2 are far worse conditions than the previous and most of the horror stories of shelters are true. In many respects they are pretty dangerous places to live.

As much as dislike some of you, i wouldn't wish this experience on any one of you. I hope that my current situation helps people who feel they're struggling that life could be far worse.

It's going to be awhile before i am back on my feet again.
Thanks for reading and no matter how tough things get don't give up!
 
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@ the 2 people above who responded to my initial post. Homelessness can happen to anyone at any point in their lifetime and the last thing a person needs is a retarded response, they get enough shit from the system & the people whos job it is to help them get back on their feet. Keep that in mind most especially if you live in the usa...

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An update for those that care; been working all week, still at the shelter tho. I figure in about another 3 weeks I'll be able to secure a place to live. This situation is no ones fault but my own, i pretty much ignored my problem until it became too late to do anything about it.

I think i prefer the physical labor over sitting in an office or dealing with clients. Because i am getting exercise & not having to argue over getting paid... Consistent work and guarenteed paycheck trumps trickles of large sums of money.
 
1. Do you become any food at your shelter?

2. Don't you have any family that could help you with providing some room during your hard time?

Anyway, looks bad. Yes, that's the worst thing that could happen when you live in the US. Luckily I live in Germany, and here in worst case, you will be provided with basic money from the social office, to pay your flat and to have something to eat.

I wish you all good buddy! Hope it gets better one day.
 
I wish you good luck. Hope you find a way around this. However I know u know some c++ and more stuff. Isnt that a way too earn some cash?
 
So i am into my 3rd day being officially homeless. I went to a shelter and i will tell the conditions there are more than terrible. You have mixture of drug addicts, alcholics, and wackos that make my behavior in this community seem rational.

I am typing this on my phone. I got a pretty good deal on it. $60 no tax or connection fee. A phone is one of the most important things you should have. Even if the phone has no service you can still use an open signal to surf the web & even make or receive phones through services such as google voice.

Shelter's in this part of jersey are essentially just a building with a few beds and plastic chairs. My 1st night there i got 45 minutes sleep and i was sleeping on the floor. Last night i slept on 3 plastic chairs. I got about 3 1/2 hours sleep so i guess that means i am moving up in the world. Last night i had to listen to people yelling at one another about how they better go upstairs because they smell like shit...

I don't feel completely screwed though, prior to becoming homeless i found a job & i start tomorrow. It's a custodial position, when you've hit rock bottom any job is a good job. The shelter lets you stay for 45 days and then its on to the next one if you need to, this place has 3. I've been told the remaining 2 are far worse conditions than the previous and most of the horror stories of shelters are true. In many respects they are pretty dangerous places to live.

As much as dislike some of you, i wouldn't wish this experience on any one of you. I hope that my current situation helps people who feel they're struggling that life could be far worse.

It's going to be awhile before i am back on my feet again.
Thanks for reading and no matter how tough things get don't give up!
I agree. I´ve been homeless for 5 weeks, but since I was under 18 I came in a shelter for young people and as you can guess the people there are terrible, but not like in a shelter where everybody is. I had no job and had to get a flat with 18, without having father or a mother (reasons) that could help me. So I wrote an application, went to the shopping street in our City and tried to find a job. And got one, 120 hours a month, 1.100€ (without taxes). I found a flat, my brother lend me the money for the guarantee. I agree to you, you should never give up. Life can always have a meaning, even if its that you have a warm bed and food. There are places where kids die and... and... and...

I wish you the best from germany, keep going.

Cya
 
Got paid this week, my job is sympathetic to my current situation so they threw me a few extra bucks, which is more than i can say for anyone of you on here except for maybe okke... Not one of you sent me a nickle.. That's ok i am determined to get myself out this predicament on my own.

In general all you have is yourself to rely on... Everything else is just wishful thinking.

To get around the basic essentials such as hygiene i joined a gym, food you can get almost anywhere either free or next to nothing the same goes for clothes.

Going to check out a room today & go from there.
 
Got paid this week, my job is sympathetic to my current situation so they threw me a few extra bucks, which is more than i can say for anyone of you on here except for maybe okke... Not one of you sent me a nickle.. That's ok i am determined to get myself out this predicament on my own.

In general all you have is yourself to rely on... Everything else is just wishful thinking.

To get around the basic essentials such as hygiene i joined a gym, food you can get almost anywhere either free or next to nothing the same goes for clothes.

Going to check out a room today & go from there.
Why should you expect people from a game comunity to give you anything?
 
Why should you expect people from a game comunity to give you anything?
Game community? I am sorry i thought this was a developers community... I must be in the wrong place.
 
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Game community? I am sorry i thought this was a developers community... I must be in the wrong place. It's no wonder 90% of you don't know shit about development.
Sure, judge 90% of the community because 5 people answered on your post.
Well done.

No matter if this is a Game community or dev community. This is a OT Forum, its already rude to expect to get money from people that don't know you, didn't even saw you once and don't know who you are. I wish you the best and that even when you'r in such a difficult situation still dont lose your respect to other people.

Good bye
 
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Got paid this week, my job is sympathetic to my current situation so they threw me a few extra bucks, which is more than i can say for anyone of you on here except for maybe okke... Not one of you sent me a nickle.. That's ok i am determined to get myself out this predicament on my own.
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Is this becoming a thing now? Throwing a thread in everyones face and putting people on a guilt trip and saying you are homeless?
How are we even supposed to know this is real or not, are you kidding? I don't give a fuck if I sound like a douchebag or anything, but holy shit is OTLand the place to go to when you need help? And to ask for money without providing ANY evidence that you actually are homeless and are in need of help are just plain stupid... Only a fool will donate to people "Claiming they are homeless and need help" on the internet without any kind of proof.

And then posting "Not one of you sent me a nickle.. That's ok i am determined to get myself out this predicament on my own". Can you fucking blame them? Would you donate money to me if I said that I was homeless? Without you knowing who the fuck or what the fuck I am in real life? I mean, I could be homeless because I fucking deserved it, I could be homeless because of parents throwing me out because I'm a fucking criminal.

Give me a good fucking reason why I should even give you any money at all. For all we know, you could be sitting at your computer and just saying this shit to get some cash...
And by the looks of it, acting like a fucking asshole when you ask for money is not the best way to handle things, I'd say...

If this is true, and you didn't deserve to get homeless or whatever, I feel sorry for you. But this is not the best place to ask for help.
 
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Get a job :p (joking kinda)
Anyway, what are you trying to accomplish here? What do you want? :)

Edit: Ooops, this thread is a month old.
I wonder where he's at now. Update pls!
 
Is this becoming a thing now? Throwing a thread in everyones face and putting people on a guilt trip and saying you are homeless?
How are we even supposed to know this is real or not, are you kidding? I don't give a fuck if I sound like a douchebag or anything, but holy shit is OTLand the place to go to when you need help? And to ask for money without providing ANY evidence that you actually are homeless and are in need of help are just plain stupid... Only a fool will donate to people "Claiming they are homeless and need help" on the internet without any kind of proof.

And then posting "Not one of you sent me a nickle.. That's ok i am determined to get myself out this predicament on my own". Can you fucking blame them? Would you donate money to me if I said that I was homeless? Without you knowing who the fuck or what the fuck I am in real life? I mean, I could be homeless because I fucking deserved it, I could be homeless because of parents throwing me out because I'm a fucking criminal.

Give me a good fucking reason why I should even give you any money at all. For all we know, you could be sitting at your computer and just saying this shit to get some cash...
And by the looks of it, acting like a fucking asshole when you ask for money is not the best way to handle things, I'd say...

If this is true, and you didn't deserve to get homeless or whatever, I feel sorry for you. But this is not the best place to ask for help.
I laughed out loud when i read this post.

How exactly do you expect someone to prove they are homeless? Hmm?

Do you want pictures of the shelter, the mats, the shitty food? Or shall i provide a written statement from my lazy ass case worker.. Seriously your post was just ridiculous.

I won't be homeless forever, as a matter of fact i should be on my feet pretty soon.

However i most likely will not be returning to this community, not just because i am not welcome here but because there is more to life than otland & it's inhabitants.

Peace!
 
I laughed out loud when i read this post.

How exactly do you expect someone to prove they are homeless? Hmm?

Ok then, I am homeless can you please send me some money? And if you don't I will judge you for it and treat you like you are an asshole that don't care about me.
 
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