I know running an OT or developing and running any kind of an application that people use on daily basis takes a lot of time, whether you disappear or not I don't know, but its evident that you lack communication after a few days. In reality you should have someone to answer all these questions that community ask/suggest, but your tutors are pretty meh and egoistic, so it boils down to no communication at all...I can and I can't agree of the point of mine 'disappear' after a week of the server launch. It might look like this for you as a players sometimes, while we are not providing lot of updates, but still you have to remember that we are mostly working on updates between editions. However, if you were tracking Castabra process and progress you could've seen that this server has been well managed and it was receiving constant updates - it will be same here - you've got my word about this and I'm not planning to 'disappear' for a longer time, you'll receive lot of decent updates and lot of activity from us when it comes to the support. Meanwhile...
I also know people are annoying and that everyone thinks their issue is most imporatant and that they are always right but still...
See for example, 2 days befor launch we still don't know if final exp stage is going to be 1x or not, and which custom spawns will be in the game... And that's something that a lot of people are dusscissing and wanting to know here on otland, discord, fb groups etc...