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Make girl friends having 0 friends in vacations :S?

Im kinda timid got kicked from school my friends betrayed me, wna loose my timidness before i enter new school what could i do to meet new people or get a girlfriend (lol), go to the streets alone and meet people doing stupid things? like... werent you that girl in my class? (dont even know her)
things like that, or get male friends in some way to meet female ones
how to start from 0 lol
give ideas of what i could do!!
really bored playing tibia at home :blink:
 
haha ive thought on doing thaat lol but i dont wna come to the new school like a fuckang antisocial with no friends thats why im worryng lol
 
Show us a picture of youserf, based on that maybe we can tell you a bit more.
But I'd say join a sport, go to the pub and meet people or something.
From there on you'll be invited to parties and such, and that way you'll get friends pretty fast.
Don't be shy, be open and talk about stuff you like. But be sure to don't talk about everything though. Adapt your conversations to the person you're talking with. People like people who have the same interests and talk in the same way. But don't change yourself, just give them your honoust meaning but not in a rude way. So if you're talking with a guy who's really into soccer try to say some stuff about soccer and give your meaning. If you're talking with a girl which is into movies perhaps. Talk about movies you really like and ask her what she likes. But be sure not to name suckish hack and slash movies. It's always good to go with commercial movies such as which have been released lately. (500 days of summer, the hangover, Avatar w/e) Also, don't be shy to ask a girl out. I was shy at first as well, but you'll be suprised how easy it is to get a girl to go out with you.That's pretty much all I can tell you for now:)

Cheers.
 
Even if you have a fuckface or a handsome nub face, just live with it, you won't change it until you have muneez.

So, don't try to be the most popular nerd in school, take the first week, or some days to see whos the big boy, etc... be cool, and don't do anything stupid like fights. That's just in case you get hurt... and practice a sport menz.. american football ftw!

And... if you want to have friends, don't talk about Tibia.

About the girlfriend.. call me whatever you want, but having a girlfriend is not a 1 week shit, if you love her, you'll find the way, if you don't, you'll talk about Tibia...
 
One simple solution:

Stop giving a damn about what other people think.
 
im not a nerd (posted a pic in rl pics :P) i was kinda the cool guy before i was kicked from school (since i hited a lot of people and that made me gain respect)
im just timid or i dont have a conversation topic since i spend to much playing tibia and i wont tell someone, man i looted a woi!! xD
but i dont really care what people thinks but i just wna get a social life since im really bored right now in ma house
 
Dude, that's not the solution. Being a bully will not make people respect you, or help you gain friends. It will make people fear you and hate you. How the hell do you expect to get a friend, if all you do is hit him and then think he 'respects' you?

Ugh.
 
im not a bully, i hited people who ofended me or hit me first im good person :P defending myself, i wont defend myself like that in new school tho cause i dont wna get kicked from that one to
 
I was the same in the Junior Highschool lol. I know when i was in serbia, a teacher gave me a F but i knew everything then i was so pissed off and took a basie and was smashing the front door of the school. Got me kicked out tough =)
 
Violence is not the way to solve things. You can solve things by talking, asking a person with higher autority to help you.. Or you can simply solve it outside of the school, that is, if the person won't quit being so harsh or mean to you. Also, could I know your concept of 'defend'?
 
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