I know Realsoft reports a lot of "troll" posts which he calls them, posts which are usually completely fine or simply not bad enough for them to be deleted. He has to understand that people are entitled to post their opinion even if it might be negative and stop reacting so strongly to these posts. There are users who cross the line when delivering the message, I wont deny that, but the actual count of problematic posts is a far lower than Realsoft believes.
Realsoft, you have and have had conflicts with quite some people. I also know you assume that people's underlaying motive for their negative feedback is to get you and put all your work into a bad light. Well that might be, but are you a mind-reader? no, and even it you were: it doesn't matter what you know or think, what matters is what the uninvolved visitor/member reads. He'll end up seeing: a person with some negative feedback and reply to that post from the OT owner, a post containing a defensive and offensive kind of attitude. Who wants to play on a server where the OT owner doesn't listen or worse: insult you? You should simply treat every post as it was from an unknown neutral member and reply in a good manner. Keep your head cool, if you react strongly to a post and feel the urge to reply: don't, wait an hour or two to cool down before replying.
Another thing: when you create a new thread for your new server, don't go thinking that this is a completely fresh start and expect only positive response. A lot of people already have a picture of you, a very skeptical one after all bad experiences with your earlier servers, that isn't going away. If you really want a fresh start, then you gotta change, not just create a new server/thread or go under another name, because it doesn't do anything else than creating a temporary "solution" and then backfiring. You can either continue with what you're doing now, something that isn't working out too well, or make a real effort to change. You can begin today, I saw you're working with a new server, keep a good attitude and reply in a nice manner.