I will check your server out today because I was kinda busy on the weekend. As many mentioned before everyone should give those new servers a chance.
I’m 100% with those guys who said you should think about advertising more and talk to the well-known commanders of all teams (especially iskall, gijtero, Mitch, manowar, reja etc.) and convince them to play your server. There’s many ways how to convince those guys
You would also need a good start date. At the moment realera is still alive and imperianic started yesterday. That had a bad impact on your start for sure.
A US server with a good EU proxy should for sure be the best choice. Olders, besides realera, offers the best longevity because the South American community is more stable and doesn’t give up as fast as many of the European teams/players do.