No, I donate my time and expertise, no one here tells me what to do because I do not work for you, I hope that clears things up.
No it doesn't really, since you volunteered to join this project.
Fast forward a bit, you have a tantrum, Extrodus explains what happened, you start arguing.
Fast forward even more, you continue to harass people and step on Extrodus' project even more.
You say you are 39, but you act more like you are 5 and can't get the candy you so dearly want in the candy store.
I saw what you posted last night in the spriting thread. You are so unbelievably dense that you can't understand the reason why we stand up for each other is because we are a community.
We don't let people like you trash the members of this community. Especially when we're old friends. A lot of people here doesn't even know who you are. You're just a random guy that is good in scripting and has started a shit storm.
This is beside the point though.
The reason you can't stand that people give you orders is because you aren't nearly capable of organizing a well run project. You are almost required to follow orders if not given leeway.
The project needs everyone to be organized and you can't have 4 different scripters doing whatever. They need to get a clear task and that is what someone would call an order.
If this is something that is something you can't cope with, then I would recommend you to leave. Everyone plays by the same rules here.
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I am sorry for the off-topic but this had to be said, at least I think so.
Good luck with the project, Extrodus, hope you find the developers that you deserve!